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This should probably go without saying, but: if you send me a message in my ask box that contains misogyny, racism, homophobia, biphobia, transphobia, slut-shaming, etc., it will be deleted. I don’t...
View Articlewhat do you think of schrodingers rapist?
The article, you mean? I think it’s wonderful! As a woman who’s very unreceptive to being approached by strange men because of bad past experiences, I think it provides men with a much-needed...
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3DS XL Blue by mikeslagter on Flickr.My parents got me one of...
3DS XL Blue by mikeslagter on Flickr.My parents got me one of these for my birthday, along with about a zillion games that my dad was able to get for free because he has business connections with...
View Article"I do not wish women to have power over men; but over themselves."
“I do not wish women to have power over men; but over themselves.” - Mary Wollstonecraft (via shjaron)
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How can I be hot for my boyfriend?
Sorry, it’s impossible for me to know the answer to this. Every guy finds different things hot. You’ll have to ask him what he’d like you to do.Confidence and self-assuredness are pretty universally...
View ArticleHow can I always feel like a hot babe?
I don’t know if it’s possible to ALWAYS feel attractive. I am sure that even supermodels have days when they feel like a zitty frumpy mess (or some variation thereof).I think the best you can do is...
View ArticleAre there foods or drinks that make your vagina happy? And vice versa? I...
Your wording is kind of vague. What do you mean by “makes your vagina happy”?Coffee can make your vaginal fluids taste really strong and pungent, if that’s what you mean. It’s usually recommended that...
View ArticleHi Kate, I have a question... Recently my boyfriend has been paying...
You need to talk to him.Communication is mandatory in relationships. There is no way around it. If you’re holding back your true feelings from someone, you might as well not be dating them at all,...
View ArticleI think that I may be over-sensitive to the male gaze/male attention. I don't...
I find it helpful to wear a giant pair of sunglasses when I’m feeling particularly vulnerable. I don’t exactly know why, but it makes me feel safer and better.I also find it helpful to walk in a...
View ArticleIf i have lots of sex with different guys is it true that I will become "loose".
No. The vagina is made of muscle, not Silly Putty. If you do Kegel exercises regularly, you’ll stay tight and strong down there.
View ArticleI've been thinking of going out with sugar daddies, and receiving money in...
Nope. As long as everybody involved knows what the arrangement is, so no one is being lied to about what’s expected, there’s nothing morally wrong with what you’re doing. Stay safe, though!
View Article#1 thing I've learned from Reddit:
We need to integrate the sexes more – more socialization between boys and girls, and between men and women, especially in non-sexual scenarios – because men who have had limited experience with women...
View ArticleThe post about Reddit kind of corresponds with what I asked you the other day...
When I was experiencing feelings like those (i.e. a near-crippling discomfort around feeling “used” by men, even men I didn’t so much as speak to), some things I found helpful were therapy, intensive...
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volpesvolpi: vickiexz: penjolina: piddlebucket: randomstabbin...
volpesvolpi:vickiexz:penjolina:piddlebucket:randomstabbing:hilariousslut:aliveforalittlewhile:warcrimenancydrew:historywhore:warcrimenancydrew:do you guys remember that one post about how men feel...
View ArticleThere aren’t that many songs that have my name in the...
There aren’t that many songs that have my name in the title that I actually like, but this is one of them. (Except, you know, “Katie” isn’t really my name. But whatever. Close enough.)
View ArticleIn the next few weeks I’m going to… -see my final grades for the...
In the next few weeks I’m going to… -see my final grades for the year -find out whether I got an internship -give a talk on sex toys to a group of peer support volunteers -see Marc Jordan in concert at...
View ArticleI resent the idea that only men can have “man caves.” FUCK YOU,...
I resent the idea that only men can have “man caves.”FUCK YOU, MY BEDROOM IS A LADY CAVE
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