all the times I’ve ended a tweet with “a memoir” in 2017
“I’m Not Flirting With You, I’m Just Smiling Because I’m Listening To @MBMBaM”: a Subway Romance Memoir depressed enough to want tons o’ rough sex to cheer me up but too depressed to actually pursue...
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“things to do in winter” - from a zine I made in...
“things to do in winter” - from a zine I made in 2010
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some favorite journal entries from 2017
January 9th. I have not had sex in over three weeks, I have not really flirted with anyone in 2017 so far, and there was one incident where I reinstalled Tinder and Bumble on my phone again but deleted...
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2017: the Year of Devastated Bravery
Time for my annual year-end survey! Been doing this one for well over a decade. Previously: 2012, the year of sex-positivity. 2013, the year of self-care. 2014, the year of turning over a new leaf,...
View Article2017 money shakedown
Previously: 2013, 2014, 2015, 2016Quick stats:• In 2017 I made 110% more money than I did in 2016(i.e. more than double).• I had a dayjob January through April, then got another one in June which I...
View Articlethis song is fucking heartbreaking and this rendition is...
this song is fucking heartbreaking and this rendition is particularly A++
View ArticleHey kate. Do you think casual relationships are worth the heartache? It...
It’s a complicated question because I think it vastly depends on the people and the circumstances! I’ve had casual relationships that worked really well and ones that made me fucking miserable. The...
View ArticleKate Sloan of the Dildorks write about her first trance experience.
Kate Sloan of the Dildorks write about her first trance experience.: hypno-sandwich:This is fantastic and worth your time.☺️🌀
View Articlesupersleepydude: A three-part interview series on hypnokinkMy wonderful...
supersleepydude:A three-part interview series on hypnokinkMy wonderful partner, @katesloan, recently published an extended interview series with me about how we play with hypnosis during phone sex and...
View ArticleWhere to find me
Hey, I don’t really use this Tumblr anymore, but thought I should let y'all know that I won’t be using the site much going forward because of recent news about Tumblr banning adult content. If you want...
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animalstalkinginallcaps: “FASTER” I CAN DO! “IN CIRCLES” IS...
animalstalkinginallcaps:“FASTER” I CAN DO! “IN CIRCLES” IS FINE!“DEEPER” IS JUST NOT GOING TO HAPPEN, OKAY? SO PLEASE STOP SAYING IT!
View Article"As the writer, you are in a position of great power—you control the...
“As the writer, you are in a position of great power—you control the megaphone—and the reader knows this. You can make people look good or bad. And if the reader senses you’re abusing this power,...
View ArticleSongAWeek 2025, song #1/52. The prechorus about “lightning in a...
SongAWeek 2025, song #1/52. The prechorus about “lightning in a bottle” came to me in the shower, along with the chorus melody. Built everything out from there. Definitely inspired by a personal...
View ArticleSongAWeek 2025, #2/52. Parasocial relationships were on my mind because...
SongAWeek 2025, #2/52. Parasocial relationships were on my mind because we’d been talking about them on my podcast. I wrote the lyrics first and then set them to music. This is about Adam Scott if it’s...
View ArticleSongAWeek 2025, song #3/52. The assigned theme this week was “lost in...
SongAWeek 2025, song #3/52. The assigned theme this week was “lost in translation” so I spent days working on a song in French, before abandoning the task to write about miscommunications in...
View ArticleSongAWeek 2025, song #4/52. I was assigned the challenge of using Dorian...
SongAWeek 2025, song #4/52. I was assigned the challenge of using Dorian mode, a particular type of musical scale that has a sad, haunting feel to it (“Mad World” by Gary Jules is in Dorian mode, for...
View ArticleSongAWeek 2025, song #5/52. Finally felt emotionally capable of writing a...
SongAWeek 2025, song #5/52. Finally felt emotionally capable of writing a song about the current political shitshow, after avoiding it for a while. Its title and chorus refer to a quote from Timothy...
View ArticleSongAWeek 2025, song #6/52. The theme in my SongAWeek group was “they...
SongAWeek 2025, song #6/52. The theme in my SongAWeek group was “they don’t speak for us.” I brainstormed a big long list of potential topics/scenarios this could apply to, many of which were political...
View ArticleSongAWeek 2025, song #7/52. I had the first couple verses of this song...
SongAWeek 2025, song #7/52. I had the first couple verses of this song kicking around in my drafts folder for months. Felt compelled to come back to them this week for some reason.I have more thoughts...
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