Try not to be mean
Try not to let your emotions fester in an unproductive way
Try to make the best of things
Try to focus on things that make you happy instead of the things that make you sad
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bratsub: I’ll still be a frilly princess while fucking you.
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Moniquilliloquies.: ami-angelwings: I think what bugs MRAs and guys like them so much...
Moniquilliloquies.: ami-angelwings: I think what bugs MRAs and guys like them so much...:
I think what bugs MRAs and guys like them so much about the word “creep" is that it’s the only word they understand means “Game over, you lose. Don’t ever go near me again." Anything else, they feel they can work around, even a flat out “no", just means “okay try again…
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okaysada: anonymous-bosch: liesintheskye: ohvex: creature-0f-...
*trumpet sounds*
i can indeed think myself off
(not a direct response to this post, but it’s important…)
I’m going to say a thing: SOME PEOPLE REALLY DON’T PHYSICALLY ENJOY HAVING THINGS DONE TO THEIR CLIT. PLEASE DO NOT TELL THEM THAT THEY ARE “MISTAKEN" OR “FUCKED UP" OR WHATEVER. THE IMPORTANT THING ABOUT SEX IS THAT YOU DO WHAT MAKES YOU (AND YOUR PARTNER, IF THERE IS ONE) FEEL GOOD. IF IT MAKES YOU FEEL GOOD, DO IT… IF IT DOESN’T, THEN DON’T DO IT.
No one is “supposed to" enjoy anything. We enjoy what we enjoy. And if someone really just has psychological barriers to certain types of pleasure, the only thing that might change that is being respectful and letting them explore things at their own pace.
So if your partner enjoys having things in their vagina more than having their clit rubbed? Respect that, please.
And if you’re fucking someone who doesn’t respect your preferences… please consider not fucking them anymore.
It’s also worth pointing out that most of those studies took place in lab environments. Can you typically come while under the scrutiny of scientists?
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"Minimal" makeup: foundation + concealer + powder + blush +...
"Minimal" makeup: foundation + concealer + powder + blush + mascara + eyeliner + eyebrow powder + browbone highlight + tinted lip balm.
Yeah, not that minimal after all.
P.S. I have been living in the basement for a few days because we have houseguests. It is kind of awesome. I have a whole couch and extension cord all to myself. WOOOO
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ashbensos: LET’S PLAY “HAVE YOU EVER” OK FILL MY ASK UP
LET’S PLAY “HAVE YOU EVER” OK FILL MY ASK UP
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Some miscellaneous Animal Crossing screenshots, including my...
Some miscellaneous Animal Crossing screenshots, including my Dream Address (should you want to visit my town) and my character’s new look after I finally got the hairdresser this morning.
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"Remember, there are certain things you never owe anyone, and your body is included among those...."
“Remember, there are certain things you never owe anyone, and your body is included among those. Likewise, your time and attention are yours to share when you want, where you want. You have a right to set boundaries.”
- Gavin DeBecker
- Gavin DeBecker
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I HAZ CLARISONIC. It is beautiful and turquoise and exciting. Now I need to go pack for my stay in...
I HAZ CLARISONIC. It is beautiful and turquoise and exciting.
Now I need to go pack for my stay in Peterborough. I am contemplating bringing actual makeup with me instead of going makeupless like I seem to do on every vacation ever.
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alexandraerin: onefitmodel: fithealthy-determined: i...
i understand that people that are very overweight are beautiful but it’s not about people accepting that they are beautiful it’s that it’s plain unhealthy, yes someone just barely overweight can be as healthy as someone whos at a healthy range but your body wasnt made to carry around excessive weight…im not badhing overweight people but they need to understand its about health and life worth
You can be fat and healthy, actually.
But the most important part is: Not your body? Not your business. Shame doesn’t help anyone. Stigma doesn’t help anyone. Vague future health threats don’t help anyone.
But if the only places that you hear that fat is always unhealthy are from mass media, which helps the diet industry make $40 BILLION (or more) profit per year, or from the medical community which is more interested in making money off prescribing pills and bariatric surgery, you might want to consider that you’ve been fooled. Also keep in mind that the government and medical community immediately throws out/stops funding any studies that prove that fat is not unhealthy.
(o.p)
I was going to reblog this picture before I saw the commentary. Reblogging for both!
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I recently bought the Naked Basics palette and it’s pretty...
I recently bought the Naked Basics palette and it’s pretty rad. It’s a bunch of matte neutral shades, plus one shimmery pale highlight.
Bonus: one of the shades doubles as a perfect eyebrow powder for me, and there is also a black shade that I could probably use as an eyeliner if I wasn’t a diehard liquid liner devotee.
Overall: a great palette. But only if you like matte neutrals.
P.S. Check out my mom photobombing this picture.
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"To suggest that one’s belly, body hair or tattoo is ‘distasteful’ and should therefore be covered in..."
“To suggest that one’s belly, body hair or tattoo is ‘distasteful’ and should therefore be covered in the name of etiquette is the very worst sort of body fascism. If your children are traumatised by the sight of a fat person in a bikini, a bit of cellulite or a caesarean scar, then may I tentatively suggest that you aren’t raising them correctly. If seeing someone hairy wearing something skimpy renders you ‘unable to eat your lunch’ then I’m afraid my diagnosis is the problem is with your brain, not their body.”
- Natasha Devon, Cellulite, scars, tattoos, hair, bingo wings and bellies: It’s summer - so feel free to get it all out (via aranrhod)
- Natasha Devon, Cellulite, scars, tattoos, hair, bingo wings and bellies: It’s summer - so feel free to get it all out (via aranrhod)
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courtneytrouble: photo by the lovely tristan crane for the...
This picture is so good for my heart and soul and is exactly what I needed today. Affirmation that bodies like mine can be fucking gorgeous and sexy. Thank you, Courtney.photo by the lovely tristan crane for the crash pad series. i just love my belly!
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I am evidently the Scrabble master.
I am evidently the Scrabble master.
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CAMEL!!
CAMEL!!
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Sex And Flirting In Japan: Sex and flirting in Japan (originally from lj user supacat)
Sex And Flirting In Japan: Sex and flirting in Japan (originally from lj user supacat):
Reblogging this article because I just spent several minutes looking for it and finally found it. Some really interesting information here about the sexual culture in Japan."homasse asked about the differences in flirting styles in the different countries I’ve been in, and Meg asked the same question only about sex (-_-);;; um, I don’t travel the world treating it like a smorgasbord of guys, sampling various ones from each country (tragically). But I can talk about…
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Just so you know, I'm feeling a bit under the weather as of late, so I've been going through your blog (like back to page 500) and looking at all of your gratitude posts and "ten commandments of happiness." it's helping:)
Aw babe. You win all the cute points I have to give today.
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hoechleberryfinn: breakingnews: Pope: ‘Who am I to judge’ gay...
Pope: ‘Who am I to judge’ gay people?
NBC News: Pope Francis on Monday said “who am I to judge?” gay people as he discussed one of the most divisive issues affecting the Catholic Church.
“I have yet to find anyone who has a business card that says he is gay,” the pontiff said at a press conference in which he addressed the reports of a “gay lobby" within the Vatican.
“They say they exist. If someone is gay, who searches for the Lord and has goodwill, who am I to judge?” he added.
Photo: Pope Francis, who gave a press conference on his flight back from Brazil, said he had stayed away from the gay marriage debate on his trip because he wanted to stay positive (Luca Zennaro / Pool via EPA)
#GUYS I DON’T THINK WE UNDERSTAND HOW FUCKING IMPORTANT THIS IS#THE LEADER OF THE CATHOLIC CHURCH #THE FUCKING CATHOLIC CHURCH#THAT’S PROBABLY ONE OF THE MOST CONSERVATIVE ORGANIZATIONS OUT THERE #JUST SAID #TO HIS MILLIONS OF FOLLOWERS #THAT YOU SHOULDN’T JUDGE GAY PEOPLE #LIKE OMFG #THIS IS PROBABLY THE BEST THING I’VE HEARD ALL WEEK
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things i have learned and am reflecting on tonight
1. breathing slowly, methodically, and consciously can help a wide array of ailments and anxieties. when i feel nauseous or nervous, am struggling with a physical task (like running or carrying heavy groceries), or feel my thoughts straying in a bad direction, i take long, slow breaths and really focus on the feeling of air going in and out of me. it helps so much. it’s absolutely astonishing.
2. you are under no circumstances obligated to engage in discussions with assholes on the internet. do not feel compelled to answer rude messages or reply to argumentative posts. these people essentially live in your computer in the context of your reality, and so they don’t need to affect you unless you let them into your “real life." so don’t.
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