Just got home from a long, fascinating, wonderful day filled with panel...
Just got home from a long, fascinating, wonderful day filled with panel discussions on topics like sexual authenticity, sex worker rights, and sex-negative obscenity laws.My head is buzzing with...
View ArticleThe very fact that openly identifying as a feminist spurs so much controversy...
The very fact that openly identifying as a feminist spurs so much controversy and argumentation is evidence of the necessity of feminism.It continues to boggle my mind that some people get so angry...
View ArticleHi! So what's the deal with blogacademy thing? When will the scholarship...
All the info about their scholarship program is in the last question of their FAQ. They’re supposed to choose the winner sometime shortly after April 18th-19th. And yeah, I submitted my entry.Thanks,...
View ArticleAfter I spent the day live-tweeting the Feminist Porn Conference from my...
After I spent the day live-tweeting the Feminist Porn Conference from my sexyblog Twitter account, I got home and found that someone had bought $710 worth of sex toys through my affiliate link.I...
View ArticleIdentifying as feminist has become a really complicated issue mostly due to...
That’s fine. I don’t have a problem with people who deliberately and informedly make a choice to identify in a different way. However, the feminism I am a part of is committed to equality and an...
View Articleoh, totally! sounds like we're in agreement. I'm sorry if my curtness came...
Nope, not at all!What bothers me is when people try to hate on feminism from an uninformed or un-updated perspective. Like a guy on Reddit yesterday who tried to tell me why I shouldn’t be a feminist...
View ArticleWorks I cited in my essay on attitudes toward sexuality in music from the...
-The Centre for Sex-Positive Culture’s manifesto -A Taylor Swift concert review from 2011 -“All I Want to Do” by the Beach Boys -“Why Don’t We Do It in the Road” by the Beatles -A dissertation on sex...
View Articleplaneswalkingonsunshine: If someone ever tells you a certain song is...
planeswalkingonsunshine:If someone ever tells you a certain song is important to them you should turn it up and lay on your bed and close your eyes and really listen to it even if its 10 minutes long...
View Articlei have a keloid scar that looks like a pimple on my chest. i have had it for...
If I were in your situation, I’d probably just put makeup on it whenever I wanted to wear something low-cut. A regular concealer might not cover it effectively, but you can try one of those...
View Articleis there a walgreens in toronto? west side?
Oh, I didn’t know you were Canadian. In that case, you could try ordering from Well.ca or maybe you could ask Shoppers Drugmart to special-order some for you? Or get a recommendation from your doctor...
View Articlehey kate! i hope all is well. i just bought my first sex toy, a small pretty...
I just looked it up and the internet seems to be telling me it’s 1.5” in diameter, which is better suited for a medium-sized vagina. You’ll probably be able to make it work with some lube and a warm-up...
View Articlemy mother came home drunk and started screaming abusive things like how i was...
Uh, yeah. That’s really shitty of him. I’m sorry that happened to you.
View Article"Rather than call our little girls ‘bossy,’ we should say, ‘My daughter has..."
“Rather than call our little girls ‘bossy,’ we should say, ‘My daughter has executive leadership skills.’” - Sheryl Sandberg
View ArticleJim Carrey: I still haven't done what I want to do.
Jim Carrey: I still haven't done what I want to do. James Lipton: Do you know what it is? Jim Carrey: Yeah. Explode into a ball of light.
View Articlewhat would you consider 'style basics' for someone with a style like yours?
Oh, anon, you sure know how to cheer me up via interesting questions!Here are some things I would consider central/necessary to my style…-vintage slips in various pretty colors for summer -opaque...
View Articlei'm the anon who bought the g-spot softee.. and i'm sorry to say that, as you...
Sorry your toy didn’t work out for you, girl :(My honest recommendation for you would be a purely clitoral vibrator, like the Mia or Mystic Wand, because for most women it’s the clit that likes...
View ArticleSex with my boyfriend hurts so much! I deal with it to please him but I think...
Sounds like he’s hitting your cervix, which is the thing that marks the end of the vagina and the start of the uterus.Two suggestions for you:1. Tell him not to thrust as deeply. You can try positions...
View Articlein response to this talk about g-spot vibrators, i wanted to ask if it is...
That’s pretty common. I didn’t have any G-spot sensitivity until I started combining G-spot play with clit play and that caused me to develop sensitivity in there. I don’t know how it works but it...
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