Everyone has different feelings about porn, sex, masturbation, etc. and that’s okay, but watching porn alone and masturbating definitely aren’t even remotely a sign of not being into your partner!I get so so sad when people in relationships watch porn (alone) it’s just so hard for me to understand why?
I believe that once you’re in a relationship, sex becomes more about combined pleasure and love, as well as exploring sexual activities with your partner. It just feels like you are not 100% into you partner if you seek to look at other sexual things alone.?????????????
Many people masturbate????? There is nothing wrong with that??? Just bc you’re with someone doesn’t mean you can’t enjoy your own time & focus on yourself???????
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It would be a sad and confined world indeed if everyone had to focus 100% of their sexual energies and fantasies onto only one person at a time.
In addition to being useful as self-care/self-love/solo relaxation time, masturbation and solo porn-watching can also allow a person to act out or imagine fantasies/behaviors that their partner might not want to participate in with them, or that they don’t want to try in real life at all.
It’s fine for any person to masturbate or not masturbate, for any reason they choose, but it’s not okay to shame others for their choices in this regard!