Uh, what? I wrote it that way because I was talking specifically about cis het men. The reason they write to ME is that I’m a woman who has sex with men (and mods on AskWomen and writes about sex on the internet), so they’re seeking my advice from that perspective. In my experience, the content of that post doesn’t apply to trans men or gay men (I’ve never had a trans man or gay man ask me whether their penis size was acceptable, but cis het men ask me ALL THE DAMN TIME).
As much as inclusivity obviously matters, I’m not going to drag LGBT folks into a rant that’s exclusively focused on straight men – nor would I drag straight men into it if I had a bone to pick with LGBT folks for some reason.