My boyfriend is going vegan,fit,skinny, bikes everywhere, drinks tons of water pretty much he's so healthy. I am not at all. He always says I should eat healthy asks if I'm biking and when I make a food choice tells me it needs to be healthy. I feel like I'm not good enough for him.

If I were in your shoes, I’d tell him, “It makes me uncomfortable when you try to get me to change my lifestyle because it feels like you are shaming me for how I live my life, and that’s not okay with me. I respect the changes you made in your own life but you need to stop pushing me to change mine.”