(cont’d) I am not sure if it is offensive towards people who really do need glasses. Also if I look just silly and that I am trying too hard ughgh
I actually need glasses but have been known to wear fake ones for aesthetic reasons from time to time. I’m just one person but I’m not personally offended by people who do that.
If anyone asks you why you’re wearing fake glasses, just say, with confidence, “I like the way they look.” You don’t owe anyone any further explanation than that.
And if someone, like your boyfriend, thinks it’s okay to repeatedly pester you about it, just remind them that you get to make your own aesthetic choices and that you don’t appreciate unsolicited criticism.
I hate the whole idea of “fashion policing.” With the exception of obviously problematic things, like Nazi propaganda T-shirts or whatever, you get to wear whatever the fuck you want. If someone doesn’t like your style, they don’t have to look at you. Own it, girl.