(cont.) take it anymore (and i can’t either, for that matter), and just HAS TO kiss me. you know what i’m saying? something really intense. but i want to build it up to that point, with hints, subconscious flirtation, etc. any tips? suggestions? comments? anything from verbal queues to body language to clothes could work! THANKS!
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I am really not the romance masta, so I don’t know how useful my advice will be, to be honest, but here goes.
I think one of the best ways to incite some sexiness in casual conversations is to play games like Would You Rather?, Truth or Dare, etc. and then just ask a bunch of sex- or kissing-related questions.
It gets them thinking about that stuff in relation to you. It puts the association in their mind. And it’s really really fun.
Since your specific goal is a particular type of kiss, you might want to think about what lip products you’re wearing. Even if he doesn’t notice you’ve got a different lipstick on or whatever, you’ll be aware of it, and so you may consciously or unconsciously draw attention to your lips. I’m a fan of Lip Venom because it’s extremely tingly and makes your lips plumper. Also, if you can find a tube of Tigi Dumb Blonde peppermint lipgloss (I think it may have been discontinued), get it, because that shit is THE BOMB – very tingly, smells and tastes awesome, and amazingly thick.
Teen magazines, etc. often suggest “subliminal” ways of directing someone’s attention to your mouth (e.g. drinking with a straw, biting your lip) or of communicating to someone that you want them to kiss you (e.g. staring at their mouth); I don’t know how effective those techniques are, but they could be fun to try, I guess.