hey! so after reading your blog for a while, i saw that you really enjoy porn. I'm a female, and I really enjoy it too. But I get kind've ( not in the literal sense ) turned off, with all of the awful and derogatory headings for some porno films. " Filthy slut takes it up her ass, well known whore does etc,, ____ pretends to be a dog cause shes a bitch. " Do you ever get turned off by it?

That’s precisely why I don’t watch a whole lot of mainstream porn. Most of it grosses me out because it’s very much “by men, for men” – which means, unfortunately, that women are frequently objectified in it.

If you’re looking for some good female-friendly porn, here are some recommendations:

• Crash Pad Series, QueerPorn.TV– hot queer porn
• Meet the Mayhems– sexy smart nerds who love each other
• PassionX– various free clips of passionate, romantic sex
• MakeLoveNotPorn.TV– excellently curated amateur porn
• anything starring James Deen – he tends to be more female-friendly than most mainstream porn stars
• The Art of Blowjob– sensual, romantic blowjob videos
• any porn DVDs directed by Tristan Taormino
• Beautiful Agony– people’s faces as they reach orgasm
• Bright Desire– a new but promising feminist porn site