Part 2/2 again (silly tumblr): The problem is I’ve been assigned someone I don’t know at all. I don’t even know what gender they present as; they have a feminine name but I don’t want to make any assumptions. Anyway, our limit is $20, and I was wondering if you might be able to suggest some generic, maybe sex-related gift ideas? You seemed like a really good person to ask. :P
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Ooh, tough one.
The thing that jumps to mind for me is a book of some sort. It’s been my experience that sex-poz people love a good sex-related read. Maybe something like Sex at Dawn, Kate Bornstein’s autobiography, Bonk, or How Sex Works.
If it’s really an open sexual environment, it’d be hard to go wrong with some basic sex supplies: condoms and lube.
You could also pick up a gift card to your local sex shop, if you have one.