I feel like I should do a test-run of multiple lipsticks with my boyf before answering this for you, since, to be honest, I usually skip lipstick if I know I’m going to be kissing.
However, I’m wearing an OCC Lip Tar right now and I can tell you that the formulation is pretty kiss-friendly, at least as far as I can tell from kissing the back of my hand. As I mentioned in my post earlier today, Lip Tar is a highly pigmented product which you apply with a lip brush, so the layer of color is very thin but very colorful. It contains peppermint oil so it has a very mild minty smell/taste.
I’m not really sure what else to recommend, apart from possibly a MAC lipstick blotted down a lot. If anyone else has any suggestions for this anon, submit ‘em!