also one last question,. i have this cute velvet tank top but thing is to wear it ill have to go braless and totaly expose my arms (which are not skinny at all) and also when i shave i still have a dark skin on my armpits, should i just fuck it and wear it? i feel selfconcious though

You could wear a cardigan with it. That’s what I usually do when I’m feeling insecure about my arms.

If you want to do something about your dark pit skin, apparently daily applications of lemon juice can help with that.

It doesn’t really matter though. Just wear whateva you want to wear. If someone is offended by your body, that’s their own issue, not yours.